Explore the world

September 3rd, 2009

I found a cool blog today http://pecoskid.com/

The most recent entry is about President Obama but prior to that there are some stunningly written entries about the Authors travels.
Makes me want to get out there and explore the world!

I haven’t left the country since I had children, but I have traveled a little locally. I think all older children should travel. Experiencing different cultures leads to tolerance, not to mention making for great hands on education and I would love to give mine an adventure one day.

I really wouldn’t know where to start though even if I did have the money to do so (I don’t). There are so many places I would love to explore. So many different kinds of vacations I would like to take.

I gave up smoking recently – I have started putting away what used to be spent on my vice – I think I just decided what I’m saving for!

Where would YOU go first?

Woman Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi approved as health minister for Iran

September 3rd, 2009

Iran backs its first female minister!

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Iranian MPs have approved the first woman minister in the 30-year history of the Islamic republic.” according to a report I read at http://news.bbc.co.uk

The site describes “MARZIEH VAHID DASTJERDI” as being aged 50 and said that she qualified as a gynecologist at Tehran university and has been a leading activist in women’s health. They also state that her nomination was criticised as she has no experience of government or running a hospital. She has served as an MP for an Islamic physicians’ party, spearheading a campaign to introduce segregated hospitals.

I say Congratulations Iran and Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi …

What do YOU think ?

Lizzie Miller Size 12-14 – too fat for a plus size model?

September 3rd, 2009

Lizzie Miller a 20-year-old model at 5ft 11in and 12.5 stone (US size 12-14) has caused a storm of controversy as she is considered too large to model for plus-size lines( – apparently they prefer to use US size 8-10 models in plus size shoots.)

a size 8-10 is plus size? a 12-14 is too big for a plus size model gig WTF???

What kind of world do we live in when a normal sized young lady is considered to big even for a “big girl”?

When I clicked the link to view the article on http://www.guardian.co.uk titled “Too fat to be a model? The picture that caused a storm in the fashion world” I expected to see a very large lady – not someone who is actually “average” by most countries growing sizes.

Obviously  I am not alone in thinking this is an attractive young lady with normal curves as the magazine that featured her (all be it a tiny pic buried on page 194 of Glamour magazine) has been inundated with praise and support for Lizzie even though she is by industry standards considered even too large for the plus size tag.

Personally Id like to see more “normal” women hired as models and reflecting normal women in the media

What do YOU think? Is she too fat for plus size?

Am I too fat for plus size modeling?

Am I too fat for plus size modeling?

Mr Percival – Storm Boy’s favorite pelican dies

September 3rd, 2009

Mr Percival -  star of the 1976 South Australian film Storm Boy has died at Adelaide Zoo from old age at 33 last night.

Based on Colin Thiele’s novel about a young boy who raised three pelicans and is made to set them free by his dad.

I remember seeing the movie and being touched by it when I was a child and recommend anyone that hasn’t seen it tracks it down.

Mr Percival is survived by his seven offspring that he sired with his long term partner Alto

RIP Mr Percival!

Saying what I think – Azerbaijan bloggers

September 2nd, 2009

I am enjoying this – the freedom I have to express my opinion in this blog.

I have been suprised at and pleased that people have taken the time to comment.

It seems perhaps not every one has that freedom.

According to news I just read at news.bbc.co.uk

Two bloggers from Azerbaijan are facing up to five years in jail after posting a video of a donkey giving a news conference on YouTube.”

(click link above to view the video)

Authorities say they are just investigating a criminal case but the lawyer of Andnan Hajizade and Emin Milli claims the arrests were politically motivated. The two men were held by police on hooliganism charges after an incident at a restaurant after the video was posted.

In the video, the donkey appears to send up government news conferences claimed by critics to be nothing more than propaganda.

I don’t know for a fact who is right or who is wrong as I don’t know all the details, but I side with the bloggers and I am just grateful that I have the freedom to express that fact here.

What do YOU think?

‘Super dill’ Tim Holding

September 2nd, 2009

I have little respect for the game of politics and even less respect for most of its players yet I also have compassion so I hoped for the best possible outcome when Australian Victorian Minister Tim Holding went missing the other day. I was of course thrilled that he had been found alive and returned to his family.

Today I am a little annoyed with him though. I don’t expect that he should pay for his own rescue- unless he profits from it by way of paid media deals etc but I do expect him to be humble and acknowledge his fault in the incident rather than the arrogance I perceived in a quote I just read discussing his failure to carry the advised Emergency Position-Indicating Radio Beacons (EPIRBS) with him

“I’ve never hiked with an EPIRB before and I’ve been to places that are far more remote and rugged than where I was at Feathertop but – and I have to say I bet if we interviewed 100 hikers going up there in six months’ time we would probably find very few EPIRBs with them – but I think given what I’ve put my family through and Victorians through over the last few days when I hike in the future I’ll have an EPIRB with me”

All this when it was his actions that caused the accedent and his failure to set out fully equiped with the advised tools that caused the delay (and extra cost) in his rescue.

I do not know him personally or even politically but Tim Holding, like the opposition I think you are a ‘Super dill’ – and an unrepentant one at that!
He has apologised for all the concern he has caused, has thanked his supporters and rescuers but he has not made a heart felt apology for being an idiot in his choices, rather he has brushed them off as what everyone else would do. Maybe so, maybe 80% of Australian hikers are also arrogant idiots I don’t know, I don’t know any – but aren’t our leaders(world wide) meant to set a good example to their community?

I am tired of fools running countries – I am tired of people who feel they are above everyone else thinking they have the right to lead other people.

What do YOU think?

Ebay – what has become of you?

September 2nd, 2009

- Down with rippoff scum power sellers)

I discovered ebay a few years ago when my youngest had become a toddler and a friend suggested I sell some of his baby gear that was no longer required.

A few hours work and two weeks later I had less clutter and $240 in my hands after ebay fees and postage woot :D

I then discovered buying. Most of my purchases were great and whilst I spent a fortune I also saved a lot of money buying my treats this way (usually kids toys but also cosmetics and perfumes and the odd random must have usually 20-60% cheaper than in the stores)

I shop on ebay in fads – when I returned most recently it was after about a 6 months break and oh my – there have been some changes!

Firstly most of my favorite sellers were gone (some had been there years) Just about everything is now brand new cheap imports being sold by “POWER SELLERS” I did with some digging find a few deals though.shoponline

I ordered 6 items in September.

4 were perfect transactions, if a little less friendly after all the changes ebays small sellers have suffered I don’t blame them for trying to protect themselves, but this is not a post about the hard done by small sellers its about the remaining bad  big boys. Two transactions were with “power sellers” for those of you who have followed ebays downfall over the last 12 months will know that these big boys are the only sellers ebay really wants.

Both sellers had thousands of customers – over 99% feedback score.

I felt confidant in placing my bid.

The first sale was for two popular mens aftershave sets – on sale on auction but with a very good value buy it now price. I hit buy it now and paid then and there. My package arrived fast and well wrapped – but there was a problem …only one item arrived!
To cut a very long story short  the seller send 5 emails in 5 minutes after I wrote asking where the other package was.

email1 . Seller first stated they were out of stock for second item
email2. Seller states they sold second item for $99 usually and I wouldn’t be getting it as part of my $49 buy it now win.
email3. Accuses me of being a scammer as I must have known the items were worth more than I paid (um yes – isn’t that why we shop on ebay?)
email 4. advises me if Im not happy to return the item (oops already gave it to hubby) and they would refund me LESS shipping LESS seller fees LESS paypal fees and LESS 10% restocking fee
Email 5 responds that they have cancer and I am making them die quicker with all the stress … WTF???????

I write (and I stay nice I promise) and say that the listing clearly states 2 items. I won and paid for two items – please send second item asap or refund half my money (generous as missing item was worth more than sent item) as I only got half my items.

I get 7 more abusive emails in reply to that one, calling me names and abusing me, claiming I am a bully and a thief and that it was my responsibility to have known seller made an error with the listing!

I give up trying to be nice and file with ebay for item not as described – ebay fobs me off to paypal as that was how I had paid. I lodge a request with paypal for half money back. Seller denies request and escalates it to an investigation. Seller is able to supply documents – I am not as it was not available in the “resolution center” I am told paypal is investigating. two weeks later I get an email from paypal asking me to submit more information (what information – its a clear cut case but I run through it again anyway) a week  after that they request a police statement within 10 days or they will close the case. WTF???

I have proof the seller listed TWO items
I have proof of the abuse and the emails telling me they would not send the item I won and admitting they placed two items on the sales page.

It was clear cut – yet still my claim is on hold weeks later!

Ebay also allowed this seller to post abusive feedback and took 10 days to take it down even though it was in breach of their rules.
Ebay has also allowed this seller to continue to abuse me outside of ebay via email. Ebay passed the buck to paypal and paypal is not interested in solving a clear cut case (I guess they make a LOT of fees from these big sellers)

Sale two was for 10 bakugan brawlers for my son.
He chose and helped me bid and payed me back for the sale with his own money ( close to $80 – I paid for his postage) – all on Aug the 2nd.

After 3 emails the seller replies today that “they have been posted” That’s it – no further details. I take a look at his feed back – seller may have a 99% feedback for 7608 sales but when I look closer they have over 200 neg/neutral in the last 6 months – nearly 50 this past month – all complaining it took months to arrive or didn’t turn up at all! In return the seller had replied blaming buyer in ever case!
You know what – after my run in with the last seller and ebays lack of action and paypals weeks of investigation on a clear cut case I have decided I wont even bother with a claim this time.

Ebay knows that HUNDREDS of buyers in the last 12 months have been ripped off by this seller (apparently he also charges hugely for shipping but posts cheaply) yet he is allowed to stay and make ebay and paypal money.

I’m giving the seller 7 more days (thats over 5 weeks in total) before I do a credit card chargeback via my bank.

Ebay your two “powersellers” I have dealt with have ripped me off and you do nothing but reward them for it.

Yes I will continue buying from ebay – but I will stick to the small friendly sellers with 100% feedback if I can find them – but I am also keeping my options open and checking out the sites where most of these sellers have gone to and spending my money there.

Ebay – give us back what we used to have – the small sellers we built a relationship with -  If I want to buy new items from big businesses I’ll stick to my local retail stores thanks!

Have YOU been ripped off on ebay?
Do YOU still shop there or have you found somewhere better?

She is ugly on the inside – bigoted beauty queen

September 1st, 2009

wedding1According to Yahoo news :

“LOS ANGELES (Reuters) – Former Miss California USA Carrie Prejean has sued beauty pageant organizers claiming she was wrongfully fired for saying marriage should be only between a man and a woman.”

The article goes on to say that pageant organizers are claiming the firing was for her not meeting her obligations but personally I would prefer it if they came out and agreed it was for her pathetic views.

It’s 2009 for goodness sake – do we really still hold out these outdated views that  the commitment of marriage is only for heterosexual couples?

If the church wont accept it so be it – but a legal (non church) marriage of two consenting  adult partners who are in love and wish to make a commitment is something that everyone should be granted.

I say booooo! to Carrie Prejean – beauty is as much about spirit as looks and sweetheart your narrow minded views make you ugly!!!!!

Marriage for same sex couples – I think YES !

… what do YOU think?

Big boobs & Little boobs – all is not equal.

August 31st, 2009
big boobs cost a fortune

big boobs cost a fortune!

Rant alert! I am a woman of wild tempers today!
It should have been a fun day – shopping with the girls – three of us.

Friend one is petite, 5′2″ with pert little A cups. Friend two is a large curvy lady who a size 20 has firm full c cups and me – avarage build with gigantic “bosoms”  a DD cup.

I have always had them – well from about 13 onwards – I love them, until it came to bra shopping!

Miss A cup, picked up a cute little blue number – well made, good fabric, terrific style – all for $19 :)

Miss full figured C cup got hers on sale, lacy red $24.95 reduced to $14.00 – what a deal :)

When it came to the DD’s the story changed.
Sure there was a great selection of sexy stylish supportive bras (couldn’t have written that 15 years ago) I would have been proud to strip off my shirt and reveal any of them … until I looked at the prices !!!

$69.95 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Miss A cup could have purchased three of hers for that price!

Now I know my bra took a little extra fabric but no way in hell was it $50.00 worth of fabric. I know my size isn’t uncommon – I am a normal build other than huge boobs and I am not alone in having “biggies” so its not like there isn’t a demand for them.

It’s a scam – it’s a con – it’s blatantly unjust!

I think there should be equality in lingerie prices for all bra sizes – what do YOU think?

I hate Facebook

August 29th, 2009

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There I said it – I hate the damn thing.
You see I work a lot on my computer, I also shop on it but that’s a post for another day. Basically when I am sitting in front of this screen it’s for a work / education purpose and only sometimes for entertainment.

I was talked into opening an account a FB though – months of nagging from friends and family members and I caved. After all what was the harm and it might be fun.

Login #1 I set up my page. Uploaded a photo and added a couple of friends before logging out for bed.

I login for the second time a few days later – oooh, how exciting, friend requests! I’m loved, I’m popular – 19 people want to be my face book friend  – the word has spread, my friends and family have found me :)

I login a week later – 100 friend requests. WTF?

I know 12 of them! Friends of friends, friends of family, two ex lovers and well to be honest I haven’t a clue who the rest were. On top of that half my “friends” had subjected me to invitations for groups – most multiple groups -there were 143 of them to be exact! And messages, some sent daily!

I never did log in for that fourth visit.

Am I alone in the fact that I make time to contact in “real life” with the people I care about? Am I alone in the fact that if I haven’t been in touch with someone since high school it is because I have no interest in doing so? Am I alone in not having an urge to share details of my life with people I have no interest in that seem to think they know me because their brothers girlfriend is second cousin to my friends sisters friend?

PS I don’t “tweet” either

I hated the facebook experience – Do YOU?