She stole his heart

September 12th, 2009

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Love must have sent him stupid -  Stephfon Bennett, 20, who has since been charged with aggravated robbery returned to the scene of the crime to ask out the victim Diana Martinez .

She was robbed when three men pointed a gun at her head and stole her purse and a friend’s wallet while they were parked in front of her apartment in Ohio. Luckily for Dianna and her friend a neighbour threatened them and the fled.

They didn’t all stay gone though, Dianna recognized Bennett less than an hour later leaning against a banister overlooking the parking lot. He asked if she had a boyfriend and then asked her out. She kept him talking while  a relative called 911.

The other two robbers are still at large but Bennett  is held at the Franklin County jail on $100,000 bail.

Dumbest crook this month? What do YOU think?

Baby born 9:09am on 9/9/09, weighing 9 pounds, 9 ounces.

September 11th, 2009

How freaky is this? I read on www.lacrossetribune.com about a freaky coincidence today surrounding the birth of a baby.

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The third child of Polly and Chuck Berendes arrived at 9:09 a.m. on 9/9/09, weighing 9 pounds, 9 ounces!

Welcome to the world Henry Michael Berendes!

In my family numbers seem to play a part too.  The majority of my relatives have their birthdays in the last week of the month and most are born within the first four months of the year.  Just about any “good” thing that occurs in our lives also happen on dates from the last week of the month and the really good ones (births, marriages, job promotion, wins etc) happen durning the first four months of the year too. As do all our families house moves!

Coincidence? What do YOU think?

Why women have sex – the secret REAL reasons

September 10th, 2009

Texas University professors and Why Women Have Sex authors Cindy Meston and David Buss have shed light on the real reasons women have sex!

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Apparently 84 per cent of women admit to having sex to get “a quiet life” or as a leverage for household chores!
How romantic – one woman even confessed to having sex so that her husband would put out the rubbish!

Others admitted to giving out “sympathy sex” and sleeping with a guy just because she felt sorry for him, still more confessed to sex to relieve boredom, to keep the peace or as a cure for a headache.

Money and gifts played a part with nearly 1/10 of women admitting to nearly  “having sex for presents”. Others  women said: “He bought me a nice dinner”, “he spent a lot of money on me early on”, “he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle” as their reasons for sleeping with them.

Maybe the old reasoning that women have sex for love is out the window too with 6/10 university students said they slept with a male friend who was not their boyfriend for fun.

I have always had what my peers consider a strange attitude about sex and an above “normal” sex drive. Whilst I agree sex in a close relationship is very special I have always considered sex to be a fun pastime too and recreational event – it looks like other women are starting to view it the same way!

So there you go – the secrets are out – what do YOU think?

I like cigarettes. I like smoking.

September 9th, 2009

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I recently gave up smoking – well almost. Every second day or so I can not fight the urge and I submit to my addiction.

I have smoked mostly for 20 years. I have given up before (a month here a month there) and even managed 3 years straight without a cigarette passing my lips.

I have no idea why this time it is so hard.
I have always quit “cold turkey” before without a real problem (just easily tempted back to the dark side).

I enjoy smoking and I have my rituals. A smoke with my coffee, that unbeatable hit after a meal, that friend to rely on in times of crisis, cigarettes have a place in my life that is usually associated with pleasure.
I like cigarettes. I like smoking

What I don’t like is how they ruin my health. I hate the was I have to plan my life around when I can fit in my next one, I hate the smell, I detest the cost  and I resent the judgment placed on smokers by others.

I’m still quitting – I’m just finding it hard.
I have some quit smoking CD’s on order and I will let you know how they go, but if you have quit successfully Id love to know what worked for you.

The best way to give up smoking? What do YOU think?

Kyle Sandilands suspended again over Magda Szubanski comments

September 9th, 2009

Vile kyle is at it again. This time the radio shock jock is in trouble for comments made about comedienne Magda Szubanski where he suggested the larger than life funny lady could become skinny if she was in a concentration camp. Magda Szubanski who recently lost over a quarter of her body size is of Polish origin. Poland is where many Nazi concentration camps, including Auschwitz, were located was offended by his comments.
kyle-sandilands The general manger of Sydney radio station 2Day FM, Adam Lang spoke for the station and said:

‘2Day FM has suspended Kyle Sandilands following comments he made during The Kyle and Jackie O Show on Tuesday 8 September, 2009. The suspension will be in effect pending further discussions involving Kyle Sandilands and station management. 2Day FM believes the comments made by Kyle were unacceptable and sincerely apologises and regrets any offence they caused.’

I think its about time this mean little man was gone for good.
If his last stunt – where he used a 14 year old rape victim for entertainment wasn’t bad enough this time he has to go!

This man is not smart or funny – he appeals to the lowest witted audience who find his cruel comments amusing. He gets his cheap laughs from poking fun at and humiliating others and I fail to see his appeal. Well actually thats not quite true, I can see how his inane ramblings may appeal to perhaps 14 year old boys – but how anyone else finds him funny eludes me. He isn’t even original!

I think kyle Sandiland is a jerk – what do YOU think?

Something Useful

September 8th, 2009

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I hate Religion – want to know why?

September 8th, 2009

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Religion – it’s a controversial subject, we all have our own beliefs.

Personally organized religion does nothing for me.
I do not believe in the bible, I do not believe in an almighty creator who goes by the name of “god” who resides in heaven and watches over us as his creations.  I am spiritual and I do have a belief that we are here to grow and learn, I believe in an after life and I also believe that people are mostly good and live life according to their own morals that hopefully include treating others how we would like to be treated as that is how I try and live my life.

I am not perfect, I do judge, I do get selfish and I can be a little hedonistic – I have vices and faults, have made errors of judgment although I rarely have regrets as I believe mistakes are a lesson. Basically I consider myself to be a nice person but I am very aware that I am not perfect (Im not even sure Id want to be). I have a big issue with feelings though, I love and hate strongly!

This post is about what I HATE about religion.

What I hate more than anything is when people get all high and mighty about their beliefs and try and inflict them on others.
I also hate those who turn up to their place of worship once week yet do harm by word and action to others for the other 6 days.

I hate extremists and I hate those who think they have the right to judge others who do not share their beliefs. I hate how many wars, deaths and injustices are inflicted in the name of religion. I hate that the world has become divided by spiritual belief.
I have friends who do not believe in any god, I have friends who are Catholic, Muslim, Jewish and Buddhist. Whilst I love these people I do not agree with their beliefs completely but just as I have my right to my beliefs I feel they have their right to their own. It works for us – why?
RESPECT. I respect their right to their views and they do the same for me.

Regardless of what name you wish to appoint Him/Her – if a god does exist I can not believe that such an entity would have an issue as to what path someone follows to find “God” Surely such a being would only care as to what good is in someones heart? Surely they would care little of  an ego boost as to what name was called out in prayer.

If there is a “God” in my mind they would only care about the lessons we learn, the growth we make, the good we do and they sure as hell wouldn’t want to see people dying in their name.

The sooner we realize that we are no different from each other just because we know our “god” by another name the sooner this little planet has a chance to live in peace.

Id like to see a time were we no longer need the “church/temple/mosque” a time when religions have no name, a time where we have places of worship that are open to anyone who wishes to connect to a higher source regardless of the name they call their “god”

As strange as it sounds I would live to see the day where spiritual values are lived not just spoken about but where religions in the form they exist today are no longer around. I would like a spiritual world – not a religious one!

I hate Religion – What do YOU think?

A Post for an IGNORANT reader of my blog

September 7th, 2009

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Dear “the lord speaks”

You are IGNORANT and quite frankly fools like you annoy the hell out of me. YOU do not speak for “god”and your opinions are narrow minded.

Re your comment on the beautiful “plus sized” model Lizzie Miller:
“fat or thin there is no reason for women to pose naked this is porn.”
Fool – look up the definition of pornography – this is not porn.
This is a lovely young woman showing the female form with class and sensuality.

Re your comment on the Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi post
“this is not a place for women, men should be leaders.”
Men like YOU? Thank goodness that the rest of the world has matured beyond such idiotic thoughts – women are just as fit to lead as men.

Re the contraception post and your comment
“you should take down those links. it is a sin for teenagers to have sex it is only for married people.”
It is perfectly ok for any one of legal age in their community to have sex with another legal person – don’t like that fact – fine, but I intend to keep the links up for anyone looking for advice on how to have sex safely.
If this offends you don’t come back.

And as for your idiotic comment that
“only men and women should get wed God said so”
As I replied on the post itself -

your god may well say “no” but then I disagree with a lot of things the bible does approve of like slavery, physical punishment of children etc
But this is not a religious or moral debate – in my mind it is about equality and human rights.

I really don’t like the way YOU think

lost world found & undiscovered species!

September 7th, 2009

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According to http://www.news.com.au
SCIENTISTS have found a lost world of new species on an island in Papua New Guinea, including a giant rat, a frog with fangs and a fish that grunts.

A BBC Natural History Unit found the rat trapped in an extinct volcano - Mt Bosavi – along with up to 40 undiscovered species.
Scientist also found  approximately 16 new species of frog , 20 unknown varieties of insects and spiders and what they describe as an “extremely hairy” caterpillar, and what may turn out to be a new species of bat in the area that scientists consider as being virtually unchanged since the volcano erupted 200,000 years ago!

Wow – how freaky is that!

I truly hope that these areas and the species discovered in them are protected – who knows what we can discover from them.

What do YOU think?

chicken skin as contraceptives!

September 6th, 2009

An OMG moment if ever there was one…

I just read about a  recent UK study by market research company Opinion Health found that alarmingly inaccurate myths about contraception may be very common.

1,000 women aged 18 to 50 were surveyed in the  Bayer Schering Pharma sponsored study and 1/5th of women surveyed said they had heard of kitchen items such as bread, chicken skin and cling film being used as alternatives to the proper barrier methods. Shockingly others indicated that they had heard that food such as crisps, coke and even kababs could substitute for oral contraceptives.

What is truly terrifying though is that some people believed the pill could protect them against HIV!

I’m going to do some looking later and find some links to some good quality sex ed sites and post them here in case anyone finds this post while looking for proper information. Until then – always use a condom ;)

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QUICK UPDATE:

Here are the promised links for what (at a quick looks) seems to be factual advice aimed at teenagers in regards to sex and contraception.

Whilst my blog is NOT aimed at teens I wanted to provide these links for any one who came across this blog post looking for information – I hope it helps!

http://www.scarleteen.com/blog

http://www.sexetc.org/

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Can you guess who has the highest unintended pregnancy rate in Europe?

And lets not get smug – its not just the British – according to a report on http://www.newsmax.com the annual rate of AIDS diagnoses for boys aged 15 to 19 years has nearly doubled in the past 10 years, and rates of syphilis are also up.Obviously US teens need better sex ed too!

Teaching just abstinence is totally INSANE in my mind.
Certainly strongly recommend it to your teens if that’s your belief – but for goodness sake remember you are dealing with TEENAGERS and at least give them the information required to educate themselves on how to protect themselves should they need to. An unwanted pregnancy is probably one of the milder side effects of unprotected sex – after all it only changes your life forever – it doesn’t usually kill you!

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What is the strangest thing YOU have heard that is used as a contraceptive?