Archive for September, 2009

A Post for an IGNORANT reader of my blog

Monday, September 7th, 2009

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Dear “the lord speaks”

You are IGNORANT and quite frankly fools like you annoy the hell out of me. YOU do not speak for “god”and your opinions are narrow minded.

Re your comment on the beautiful “plus sized” model Lizzie Miller:
“fat or thin there is no reason for women to pose naked this is porn.”
Fool – look up the definition of pornography – this is not porn.
This is a lovely young woman showing the female form with class and sensuality.

Re your comment on the Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi post
“this is not a place for women, men should be leaders.”
Men like YOU? Thank goodness that the rest of the world has matured beyond such idiotic thoughts – women are just as fit to lead as men.

Re the contraception post and your comment
“you should take down those links. it is a sin for teenagers to have sex it is only for married people.”
It is perfectly ok for any one of legal age in their community to have sex with another legal person – don’t like that fact – fine, but I intend to keep the links up for anyone looking for advice on how to have sex safely.
If this offends you don’t come back.

And as for your idiotic comment that
“only men and women should get wed God said so”
As I replied on the post itself -

your god may well say “no” but then I disagree with a lot of things the bible does approve of like slavery, physical punishment of children etc
But this is not a religious or moral debate – in my mind it is about equality and human rights.

I really don’t like the way YOU think

lost world found & undiscovered species!

Monday, September 7th, 2009

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According to http://www.news.com.au
SCIENTISTS have found a lost world of new species on an island in Papua New Guinea, including a giant rat, a frog with fangs and a fish that grunts.

A BBC Natural History Unit found the rat trapped in an extinct volcano - Mt Bosavi – along with up to 40 undiscovered species.
Scientist also found  approximately 16 new species of frog , 20 unknown varieties of insects and spiders and what they describe as an “extremely hairy” caterpillar, and what may turn out to be a new species of bat in the area that scientists consider as being virtually unchanged since the volcano erupted 200,000 years ago!

Wow – how freaky is that!

I truly hope that these areas and the species discovered in them are protected – who knows what we can discover from them.

What do YOU think?

chicken skin as contraceptives!

Sunday, September 6th, 2009

An OMG moment if ever there was one…

I just read about a  recent UK study by market research company Opinion Health found that alarmingly inaccurate myths about contraception may be very common.

1,000 women aged 18 to 50 were surveyed in the  Bayer Schering Pharma sponsored study and 1/5th of women surveyed said they had heard of kitchen items such as bread, chicken skin and cling film being used as alternatives to the proper barrier methods. Shockingly others indicated that they had heard that food such as crisps, coke and even kababs could substitute for oral contraceptives.

What is truly terrifying though is that some people believed the pill could protect them against HIV!

I’m going to do some looking later and find some links to some good quality sex ed sites and post them here in case anyone finds this post while looking for proper information. Until then – always use a condom ;)

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QUICK UPDATE:

Here are the promised links for what (at a quick looks) seems to be factual advice aimed at teenagers in regards to sex and contraception.

Whilst my blog is NOT aimed at teens I wanted to provide these links for any one who came across this blog post looking for information – I hope it helps!

http://www.scarleteen.com/blog

http://www.sexetc.org/

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Can you guess who has the highest unintended pregnancy rate in Europe?

And lets not get smug – its not just the British – according to a report on http://www.newsmax.com the annual rate of AIDS diagnoses for boys aged 15 to 19 years has nearly doubled in the past 10 years, and rates of syphilis are also up.Obviously US teens need better sex ed too!

Teaching just abstinence is totally INSANE in my mind.
Certainly strongly recommend it to your teens if that’s your belief – but for goodness sake remember you are dealing with TEENAGERS and at least give them the information required to educate themselves on how to protect themselves should they need to. An unwanted pregnancy is probably one of the milder side effects of unprotected sex – after all it only changes your life forever – it doesn’t usually kill you!

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What is the strangest thing YOU have heard that is used as a contraceptive?

Explore the world

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

I found a cool blog today http://pecoskid.com/

The most recent entry is about President Obama but prior to that there are some stunningly written entries about the Authors travels.
Makes me want to get out there and explore the world!

I haven’t left the country since I had children, but I have traveled a little locally. I think all older children should travel. Experiencing different cultures leads to tolerance, not to mention making for great hands on education and I would love to give mine an adventure one day.

I really wouldn’t know where to start though even if I did have the money to do so (I don’t). There are so many places I would love to explore. So many different kinds of vacations I would like to take.

I gave up smoking recently – I have started putting away what used to be spent on my vice – I think I just decided what I’m saving for!

Where would YOU go first?

Woman Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi approved as health minister for Iran

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

Iran backs its first female minister!

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Iranian MPs have approved the first woman minister in the 30-year history of the Islamic republic.” according to a report I read at http://news.bbc.co.uk

The site describes “MARZIEH VAHID DASTJERDI” as being aged 50 and said that she qualified as a gynecologist at Tehran university and has been a leading activist in women’s health. They also state that her nomination was criticised as she has no experience of government or running a hospital. She has served as an MP for an Islamic physicians’ party, spearheading a campaign to introduce segregated hospitals.

I say Congratulations Iran and Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi …

What do YOU think ?

Lizzie Miller Size 12-14 – too fat for a plus size model?

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

Lizzie Miller a 20-year-old model at 5ft 11in and 12.5 stone (US size 12-14) has caused a storm of controversy as she is considered too large to model for plus-size lines( – apparently they prefer to use US size 8-10 models in plus size shoots.)

a size 8-10 is plus size? a 12-14 is too big for a plus size model gig WTF???

What kind of world do we live in when a normal sized young lady is considered to big even for a “big girl”?

When I clicked the link to view the article on http://www.guardian.co.uk titled “Too fat to be a model? The picture that caused a storm in the fashion world” I expected to see a very large lady – not someone who is actually “average” by most countries growing sizes.

Obviously  I am not alone in thinking this is an attractive young lady with normal curves as the magazine that featured her (all be it a tiny pic buried on page 194 of Glamour magazine) has been inundated with praise and support for Lizzie even though she is by industry standards considered even too large for the plus size tag.

Personally Id like to see more “normal” women hired as models and reflecting normal women in the media

What do YOU think? Is she too fat for plus size?

Am I too fat for plus size modeling?

Am I too fat for plus size modeling?

Mr Percival – Storm Boy’s favorite pelican dies

Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

Mr Percival -  star of the 1976 South Australian film Storm Boy has died at Adelaide Zoo from old age at 33 last night.

Based on Colin Thiele’s novel about a young boy who raised three pelicans and is made to set them free by his dad.

I remember seeing the movie and being touched by it when I was a child and recommend anyone that hasn’t seen it tracks it down.

Mr Percival is survived by his seven offspring that he sired with his long term partner Alto

RIP Mr Percival!

Saying what I think – Azerbaijan bloggers

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

I am enjoying this – the freedom I have to express my opinion in this blog.

I have been suprised at and pleased that people have taken the time to comment.

It seems perhaps not every one has that freedom.

According to news I just read at news.bbc.co.uk

Two bloggers from Azerbaijan are facing up to five years in jail after posting a video of a donkey giving a news conference on YouTube.”

(click link above to view the video)

Authorities say they are just investigating a criminal case but the lawyer of Andnan Hajizade and Emin Milli claims the arrests were politically motivated. The two men were held by police on hooliganism charges after an incident at a restaurant after the video was posted.

In the video, the donkey appears to send up government news conferences claimed by critics to be nothing more than propaganda.

I don’t know for a fact who is right or who is wrong as I don’t know all the details, but I side with the bloggers and I am just grateful that I have the freedom to express that fact here.

What do YOU think?

‘Super dill’ Tim Holding

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

I have little respect for the game of politics and even less respect for most of its players yet I also have compassion so I hoped for the best possible outcome when Australian Victorian Minister Tim Holding went missing the other day. I was of course thrilled that he had been found alive and returned to his family.

Today I am a little annoyed with him though. I don’t expect that he should pay for his own rescue- unless he profits from it by way of paid media deals etc but I do expect him to be humble and acknowledge his fault in the incident rather than the arrogance I perceived in a quote I just read discussing his failure to carry the advised Emergency Position-Indicating Radio Beacons (EPIRBS) with him

“I’ve never hiked with an EPIRB before and I’ve been to places that are far more remote and rugged than where I was at Feathertop but – and I have to say I bet if we interviewed 100 hikers going up there in six months’ time we would probably find very few EPIRBs with them – but I think given what I’ve put my family through and Victorians through over the last few days when I hike in the future I’ll have an EPIRB with me”

All this when it was his actions that caused the accedent and his failure to set out fully equiped with the advised tools that caused the delay (and extra cost) in his rescue.

I do not know him personally or even politically but Tim Holding, like the opposition I think you are a ‘Super dill’ – and an unrepentant one at that!
He has apologised for all the concern he has caused, has thanked his supporters and rescuers but he has not made a heart felt apology for being an idiot in his choices, rather he has brushed them off as what everyone else would do. Maybe so, maybe 80% of Australian hikers are also arrogant idiots I don’t know, I don’t know any – but aren’t our leaders(world wide) meant to set a good example to their community?

I am tired of fools running countries – I am tired of people who feel they are above everyone else thinking they have the right to lead other people.

What do YOU think?

Ebay – what has become of you?

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

- Down with rippoff scum power sellers)

I discovered ebay a few years ago when my youngest had become a toddler and a friend suggested I sell some of his baby gear that was no longer required.

A few hours work and two weeks later I had less clutter and $240 in my hands after ebay fees and postage woot :D

I then discovered buying. Most of my purchases were great and whilst I spent a fortune I also saved a lot of money buying my treats this way (usually kids toys but also cosmetics and perfumes and the odd random must have usually 20-60% cheaper than in the stores)

I shop on ebay in fads – when I returned most recently it was after about a 6 months break and oh my – there have been some changes!

Firstly most of my favorite sellers were gone (some had been there years) Just about everything is now brand new cheap imports being sold by “POWER SELLERS” I did with some digging find a few deals though.shoponline

I ordered 6 items in September.

4 were perfect transactions, if a little less friendly after all the changes ebays small sellers have suffered I don’t blame them for trying to protect themselves, but this is not a post about the hard done by small sellers its about the remaining bad  big boys. Two transactions were with “power sellers” for those of you who have followed ebays downfall over the last 12 months will know that these big boys are the only sellers ebay really wants.

Both sellers had thousands of customers – over 99% feedback score.

I felt confidant in placing my bid.

The first sale was for two popular mens aftershave sets – on sale on auction but with a very good value buy it now price. I hit buy it now and paid then and there. My package arrived fast and well wrapped – but there was a problem …only one item arrived!
To cut a very long story short  the seller send 5 emails in 5 minutes after I wrote asking where the other package was.

email1 . Seller first stated they were out of stock for second item
email2. Seller states they sold second item for $99 usually and I wouldn’t be getting it as part of my $49 buy it now win.
email3. Accuses me of being a scammer as I must have known the items were worth more than I paid (um yes – isn’t that why we shop on ebay?)
email 4. advises me if Im not happy to return the item (oops already gave it to hubby) and they would refund me LESS shipping LESS seller fees LESS paypal fees and LESS 10% restocking fee
Email 5 responds that they have cancer and I am making them die quicker with all the stress … WTF???????

I write (and I stay nice I promise) and say that the listing clearly states 2 items. I won and paid for two items – please send second item asap or refund half my money (generous as missing item was worth more than sent item) as I only got half my items.

I get 7 more abusive emails in reply to that one, calling me names and abusing me, claiming I am a bully and a thief and that it was my responsibility to have known seller made an error with the listing!

I give up trying to be nice and file with ebay for item not as described – ebay fobs me off to paypal as that was how I had paid. I lodge a request with paypal for half money back. Seller denies request and escalates it to an investigation. Seller is able to supply documents – I am not as it was not available in the “resolution center” I am told paypal is investigating. two weeks later I get an email from paypal asking me to submit more information (what information – its a clear cut case but I run through it again anyway) a week  after that they request a police statement within 10 days or they will close the case. WTF???

I have proof the seller listed TWO items
I have proof of the abuse and the emails telling me they would not send the item I won and admitting they placed two items on the sales page.

It was clear cut – yet still my claim is on hold weeks later!

Ebay also allowed this seller to post abusive feedback and took 10 days to take it down even though it was in breach of their rules.
Ebay has also allowed this seller to continue to abuse me outside of ebay via email. Ebay passed the buck to paypal and paypal is not interested in solving a clear cut case (I guess they make a LOT of fees from these big sellers)

Sale two was for 10 bakugan brawlers for my son.
He chose and helped me bid and payed me back for the sale with his own money ( close to $80 – I paid for his postage) – all on Aug the 2nd.

After 3 emails the seller replies today that “they have been posted” That’s it – no further details. I take a look at his feed back – seller may have a 99% feedback for 7608 sales but when I look closer they have over 200 neg/neutral in the last 6 months – nearly 50 this past month – all complaining it took months to arrive or didn’t turn up at all! In return the seller had replied blaming buyer in ever case!
You know what – after my run in with the last seller and ebays lack of action and paypals weeks of investigation on a clear cut case I have decided I wont even bother with a claim this time.

Ebay knows that HUNDREDS of buyers in the last 12 months have been ripped off by this seller (apparently he also charges hugely for shipping but posts cheaply) yet he is allowed to stay and make ebay and paypal money.

I’m giving the seller 7 more days (thats over 5 weeks in total) before I do a credit card chargeback via my bank.

Ebay your two “powersellers” I have dealt with have ripped me off and you do nothing but reward them for it.

Yes I will continue buying from ebay – but I will stick to the small friendly sellers with 100% feedback if I can find them – but I am also keeping my options open and checking out the sites where most of these sellers have gone to and spending my money there.

Ebay – give us back what we used to have – the small sellers we built a relationship with -  If I want to buy new items from big businesses I’ll stick to my local retail stores thanks!

Have YOU been ripped off on ebay?
Do YOU still shop there or have you found somewhere better?