Archive for September, 2009

Elton John Adopts baby?

Monday, September 14th, 2009

Well not yet he hasn’t – but he will if he gets his way.

Singer Elton John claims he wishes to legally adopt a 14-month-old boy from an orphanage in Ukraine.

Elton John visited the country with his Aids foundation where he performed ‘Circle of Life’ for the kids at the orphanage.

Later, at a press conference, he announced that he would like to adopt one of the children, a cute toddler who resides at the orphanage.

What do YOU think?

*Quick update – it turns out that Elton is “too old” and married to the “wrong sex” to be considered for adoption

Playboy Huge Hefner to divorce

Sunday, September 13th, 2009

Huge Hefner with assets of more than $43 million, excluding Playboy stock and property, aged 83, has filed court documents seeking to divorce former Playmate Kimberley Conrad, 47, (with whom he has two sons) last week citing irreconcilable differences.

Celebrity website TMZ.com obtained the documents that state the pair were married in July 1989 and have been separated since January 1998.

Hefner lives with several “girlfriends” including 19-year-old twins and stars in the TV reality show The Girls Next Door.

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Huge Hefner – the ultimate “Dirty Old Man” may appeal to some women – but I could not see me living that lifestyle and sharing my lover (cringes at the thought of going to bed with him) with dozens of other girls.

What do YOU think?

The pros of prostitution – make it legal?

Saturday, September 12th, 2009

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I believe prostitution should be legalised world wide for consenting adults. I believe a woman (or man ) has the right to put a price on his or her sexual services. I believe a willing adult client has the right to purchase them.
I think it is stupid that governments can dictate what we do with our bodies and that includes “renting them out”

I am not talking about naive girls being forced by pimps or sexual slavery or selling children here, I am not talking about fucked up drug addicts or women being coerced into prostitution. I am talking about the right for a woman (or man) to do what she wishes with her body.

Prostitution serves its purpose in the fact that it services a part of the community that are needing social, sexual and human contact that might other wise miss out. Of course the industry also caters for those who seek a no complication sexual encounter too, as well as those who wish to explore, learn and add to their sexual experience.
The shy, the old, the unattractive, the disabled, the time poor and the lonely all find comfort when without such services they would still go without and they are branded in some circles as monsters for it.

On the other side of the coin many a bright intelligent attractive woman has funded other wise unobtainable education “on her back” and I personally know one woman who was a “working girl” from the age of 24 – 31 when she retired with a property portfolio worth 1.8 million – set for life on 7 years work . She also studied and left the industry with a degree in psychology.
I know of women who have paid off mortgages and traveled. I know some even work while married and raising children, some times they decided to, to keep the house, pay the school fees and enjoy a decent life. Many work part time to top up their income as teachers, nurses, or so they can afford to be stay at home mothers for most of the week.
These women have a right to do their job without stigma and without legal persecution.

I do think prostitution comes with its risks and not everyone is suited to the industry. I DO NOT recommend anyone seek employment in the sex industry for many reasons (Maybe a post for another day) but I DO support the right of any adult who wishes to, to be able to do so legally and safely.

I think  prostitution should be legalised world wide for consenting legal adults. What do YOU think?

She stole his heart

Saturday, September 12th, 2009

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Love must have sent him stupid -  Stephfon Bennett, 20, who has since been charged with aggravated robbery returned to the scene of the crime to ask out the victim Diana Martinez .

She was robbed when three men pointed a gun at her head and stole her purse and a friend’s wallet while they were parked in front of her apartment in Ohio. Luckily for Dianna and her friend a neighbour threatened them and the fled.

They didn’t all stay gone though, Dianna recognized Bennett less than an hour later leaning against a banister overlooking the parking lot. He asked if she had a boyfriend and then asked her out. She kept him talking while  a relative called 911.

The other two robbers are still at large but Bennett  is held at the Franklin County jail on $100,000 bail.

Dumbest crook this month? What do YOU think?

Baby born 9:09am on 9/9/09, weighing 9 pounds, 9 ounces.

Friday, September 11th, 2009

How freaky is this? I read on www.lacrossetribune.com about a freaky coincidence today surrounding the birth of a baby.

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The third child of Polly and Chuck Berendes arrived at 9:09 a.m. on 9/9/09, weighing 9 pounds, 9 ounces!

Welcome to the world Henry Michael Berendes!

In my family numbers seem to play a part too.  The majority of my relatives have their birthdays in the last week of the month and most are born within the first four months of the year.  Just about any “good” thing that occurs in our lives also happen on dates from the last week of the month and the really good ones (births, marriages, job promotion, wins etc) happen durning the first four months of the year too. As do all our families house moves!

Coincidence? What do YOU think?

Why women have sex – the secret REAL reasons

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

Texas University professors and Why Women Have Sex authors Cindy Meston and David Buss have shed light on the real reasons women have sex!

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Apparently 84 per cent of women admit to having sex to get “a quiet life” or as a leverage for household chores!
How romantic – one woman even confessed to having sex so that her husband would put out the rubbish!

Others admitted to giving out “sympathy sex” and sleeping with a guy just because she felt sorry for him, still more confessed to sex to relieve boredom, to keep the peace or as a cure for a headache.

Money and gifts played a part with nearly 1/10 of women admitting to nearly  “having sex for presents”. Others  women said: “He bought me a nice dinner”, “he spent a lot of money on me early on”, “he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle” as their reasons for sleeping with them.

Maybe the old reasoning that women have sex for love is out the window too with 6/10 university students said they slept with a male friend who was not their boyfriend for fun.

I have always had what my peers consider a strange attitude about sex and an above “normal” sex drive. Whilst I agree sex in a close relationship is very special I have always considered sex to be a fun pastime too and recreational event – it looks like other women are starting to view it the same way!

So there you go – the secrets are out – what do YOU think?

I like cigarettes. I like smoking.

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

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I recently gave up smoking – well almost. Every second day or so I can not fight the urge and I submit to my addiction.

I have smoked mostly for 20 years. I have given up before (a month here a month there) and even managed 3 years straight without a cigarette passing my lips.

I have no idea why this time it is so hard.
I have always quit “cold turkey” before without a real problem (just easily tempted back to the dark side).

I enjoy smoking and I have my rituals. A smoke with my coffee, that unbeatable hit after a meal, that friend to rely on in times of crisis, cigarettes have a place in my life that is usually associated with pleasure.
I like cigarettes. I like smoking

What I don’t like is how they ruin my health. I hate the was I have to plan my life around when I can fit in my next one, I hate the smell, I detest the cost  and I resent the judgment placed on smokers by others.

I’m still quitting – I’m just finding it hard.
I have some quit smoking CD’s on order and I will let you know how they go, but if you have quit successfully Id love to know what worked for you.

The best way to give up smoking? What do YOU think?

Kyle Sandilands suspended again over Magda Szubanski comments

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

Vile kyle is at it again. This time the radio shock jock is in trouble for comments made about comedienne Magda Szubanski where he suggested the larger than life funny lady could become skinny if she was in a concentration camp. Magda Szubanski who recently lost over a quarter of her body size is of Polish origin. Poland is where many Nazi concentration camps, including Auschwitz, were located was offended by his comments.
kyle-sandilands The general manger of Sydney radio station 2Day FM, Adam Lang spoke for the station and said:

‘2Day FM has suspended Kyle Sandilands following comments he made during The Kyle and Jackie O Show on Tuesday 8 September, 2009. The suspension will be in effect pending further discussions involving Kyle Sandilands and station management. 2Day FM believes the comments made by Kyle were unacceptable and sincerely apologises and regrets any offence they caused.’

I think its about time this mean little man was gone for good.
If his last stunt – where he used a 14 year old rape victim for entertainment wasn’t bad enough this time he has to go!

This man is not smart or funny – he appeals to the lowest witted audience who find his cruel comments amusing. He gets his cheap laughs from poking fun at and humiliating others and I fail to see his appeal. Well actually thats not quite true, I can see how his inane ramblings may appeal to perhaps 14 year old boys – but how anyone else finds him funny eludes me. He isn’t even original!

I think kyle Sandiland is a jerk – what do YOU think?

Something Useful

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

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I hate Religion – want to know why?

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

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Religion – it’s a controversial subject, we all have our own beliefs.

Personally organized religion does nothing for me.
I do not believe in the bible, I do not believe in an almighty creator who goes by the name of “god” who resides in heaven and watches over us as his creations.  I am spiritual and I do have a belief that we are here to grow and learn, I believe in an after life and I also believe that people are mostly good and live life according to their own morals that hopefully include treating others how we would like to be treated as that is how I try and live my life.

I am not perfect, I do judge, I do get selfish and I can be a little hedonistic – I have vices and faults, have made errors of judgment although I rarely have regrets as I believe mistakes are a lesson. Basically I consider myself to be a nice person but I am very aware that I am not perfect (Im not even sure Id want to be). I have a big issue with feelings though, I love and hate strongly!

This post is about what I HATE about religion.

What I hate more than anything is when people get all high and mighty about their beliefs and try and inflict them on others.
I also hate those who turn up to their place of worship once week yet do harm by word and action to others for the other 6 days.

I hate extremists and I hate those who think they have the right to judge others who do not share their beliefs. I hate how many wars, deaths and injustices are inflicted in the name of religion. I hate that the world has become divided by spiritual belief.
I have friends who do not believe in any god, I have friends who are Catholic, Muslim, Jewish and Buddhist. Whilst I love these people I do not agree with their beliefs completely but just as I have my right to my beliefs I feel they have their right to their own. It works for us – why?
RESPECT. I respect their right to their views and they do the same for me.

Regardless of what name you wish to appoint Him/Her – if a god does exist I can not believe that such an entity would have an issue as to what path someone follows to find “God” Surely such a being would only care as to what good is in someones heart? Surely they would care little of  an ego boost as to what name was called out in prayer.

If there is a “God” in my mind they would only care about the lessons we learn, the growth we make, the good we do and they sure as hell wouldn’t want to see people dying in their name.

The sooner we realize that we are no different from each other just because we know our “god” by another name the sooner this little planet has a chance to live in peace.

Id like to see a time were we no longer need the “church/temple/mosque” a time when religions have no name, a time where we have places of worship that are open to anyone who wishes to connect to a higher source regardless of the name they call their “god”

As strange as it sounds I would live to see the day where spiritual values are lived not just spoken about but where religions in the form they exist today are no longer around. I would like a spiritual world – not a religious one!

I hate Religion – What do YOU think?